I did not watch the Grammys. I YouTube’d some conservative, Christian and religious critiques of it. I saw the usual Black liberal sectors praising its inclusivity and celebration of all lives and lifestyles. Needless to say I am shocked by the messaging, quite deliberate messaging and it is not because I am a prude. Let’s talk about the optics on celebrating something ‘unholy’, as a culture. When their movement got the world stage, in the fullness of ‘pop culture acceptance’; after years of trying to get the churches to accept it (LGBTQIA matrimony and family)as ‘holy’, after years of trying…